Is Brotherhood dead?
Perhaps you have heard or even said this statement before:
“BrotHERhood is dead!”
First of all, what is brotHERhood?
Is it the unmistakable bond shared by firefighters that cannot be explained but must be lived?
Is it the sacrifices shared by the collective hearts of those who carry one another’s burdens thereby fulfilling the law of Christ? (See Galatians 6:2)
Is it the gift of one another’s unwavering presence not only in a fire but when our world burns down around us?
Those that understand and live the principles that embody brotHERhood would say that it is all this and more.
While my words may fall short in defining such an incomprehensible term many have used harsh words in attempt to kill, destroy, or diminish its worth.
While our experiences may have left us torn, betrayed, and hurt this doesn’t mean that brotHERhood isn’t dead. It’s merely geographically challenged or been abused by those who claim to practice it.
We see many firefighters struggling in toxic environments struggling to make a difference where every effort is met with ridicule, opposition, and slander. Their perspective therefore of brotHERhood has been twisted.
The temptation is too throw up our hands and give up but let us consider this:
Do we judge the fire service by the ones who choose to abuse it?
Do we chose to base our belief on an unshakable resolve reenforced by likeminded & shared values between brethren who lift us up?
Do we willfully sit at the table of discontent and drink the poison of bitterness because the majority has become bitter?
Remember “bad company corrupts good moral character.” If your environment is toxic and you don’t have like minded passionate brethren to reenforce your values is your struggle in vain? Will the weariness of those who have been corrupted gather another casualty by our surrender?
The answer depends upon one individual:
Will you give up because everyone else has? If so, what then will you do when faced with another tough choice? If you will abandon them now you will most likely abandon them in a fire.
Will you choose to seek out those who will encourage you, educate you, admonish you, and hold you accountable so your fire will stay burning bright?
Will you succumb to the bitterness that has become commonplace and the discord that had replaced unity? Will you then take that poison home to your family and thereby poison them without even knowing it?
Consider the words of Nietzsche:
“God is dead. God remains dead. And we have killed him. How shall we comfort ourselves, the murderers of all murderers? What was holiest and mightiest of all that the world has yet owned has bled to death under our knives: who will wipe this blood off us? What water is there for us to clean ourselves? What festivals of atonement, what sacred games shall we have to invent? Is not the greatness of this deed too great for us? Must we ourselves not become gods simply to appear worthy of it?”
His words have profound meaning to us today. He implied the death of God came because we chose to believe it. He stated that in order to have taken away such a being we must become gods. The created cannot kill the creator of all things but we can refuse His kindness by choosing our own way which leads to death.
The implication for the fire service is this:
For brotherhood to be dead we the ones responsible for fostering it will have therefore chosen to have killed it by disbelieving in it.
For us to comfort others who are in need when they call for help and for us to condemn those in our fellowship is the very antithesis of brotHERhood.
For us to celebrate our traditions and gatherings only to backslide, slander, and destroy the very department that we work for with our words is the nail in the coffin of brotHERhood and leads others astray in the process.
In closing, if you believe brotherhood is dead based on those who choose to abuse, malign, and discredit the very organizations and members that they work for then perhaps you should decide who defines reality for you:
Your values & principles?
Those who discredit them?
BrotHERhood is only dead because we choose to let it die. Don’t allow those who have fallen victim to bitterness to poison your perspective. Be renewed and refreshed in the calling that we all hold dear by realizing the importance of our fellowship.
It’s essential to what we do, who we are, and how we overcome.
Bringing Back Brotherhood Ministries